Preparing for College and Young Adulthood

More independence. A plan for support.

Prepare for college, work, or living on your own with clear choices about trusted helpers, important information, and documents to consider.

You choose the people and the help you're comfortable with. Start with a conversation, then make the arrangements easier to use.

Start with what you'd want help with.

Think about an unexpected illness, a question about a bill, or a need to share information with someone you trust. You don't have to give everyone the same role.

01 / Choose

Identify trusted people.

Who would listen to your wishes, ask good questions, and be available? Discuss healthcare and financial responsibilities separately, and ask about backups.

02 / Discuss

Set clear boundaries.

Talk about what you'd want help with and what you prefer to handle privately. Ask questions before signing anything you don't understand.

03 / Prepare

Make the plan usable.

Organize contacts and appropriate copies. Check how your school, healthcare providers, and financial institutions receive and use the relevant documents.

For parents and other supporters: make room for the young adult's own choices. Try asking, "Who would you want contacted, what would you want us to know, and what would you want to keep private?" The goal is support, not automatic access to every part of their life.

College & Young Adult Preparation Checklist

Use these prompts before a move, a new semester, or a change in responsibilities. They're useful for young adults who aren't attending college, too.

  • Choose helpers and backups

    Discuss who could help with healthcare, finances, and practical tasks. Confirm willingness and contact information; don't assume the same person must fill every role.

  • Review existing documents

    Locate any signed powers of attorney, healthcare directives, and information releases. Check the people named, scope, effective terms, and expiration provisions before preparing replacements.

  • Organize health and emergency information

    Keep current emergency contacts, insurance details, provider contacts, medications, allergies, and relevant care information accessible to the appropriate people.

  • Check school-specific arrangements

    Ask the registrar and student health center about records releases. Check emergency contacts and any separate billing or authorized-user process. Skip school-only items when they don't apply.

  • Map essential financial tasks

    Identify bills, due dates, institution contacts, and the help you might need. Ask the institution about authorized assistance rather than sharing your personal login.

  • Complete the signing and sharing steps

    Review age, witness, notary, and other requirements for each document. Provide appropriate copies, confirm where originals are kept, and revisit the plan when choices or circumstances change.

Keep your own private notes. This checklist isn't an authorization, a medical care plan, or a substitute for properly completed documents. Keep passwords, recovery codes, and full account numbers out of shared checklists.

Information sharing and decision-making are different jobs.

A contact name alone doesn't explain what someone may do. Review the purpose and limits of each document.

Healthcare decisions and wishes

Healthcare POA and Living Will

A Healthcare Power of Attorney names an agent to make healthcare decisions when the applicable conditions are met. A Living Will records treatment preferences for the circumstances it addresses. MedlinePlus explains these different roles.

Medical information

HIPAA Authorization

Permits specified health information to be shared with designated recipients. It doesn't itself appoint a healthcare decision-maker. A legally authorized healthcare representative has a different role under HHS guidance.

Financial help

Durable Financial Power of Attorney

Authorizes an agent to handle the financial or property matters granted by the document. "Durable" concerns continuation after incapacity, not a promise that authority starts only in an emergency. Review the effective terms and the CFPB's explanation.

Education records

FERPA Authorization

Consents to specified education-record disclosures; it doesn't itself transfer the student's educational decisions. FERPA rights generally transfer to the student at 18 or upon attendance at a postsecondary institution at any age. The Department of Education explains the rule and exceptions.

Campus health records deserve a separate question. Student records at many college health centers fall under FERPA rather than HIPAA. Ask the clinic which release process applies; don't assume one medical-information form covers every setting. Read FERPA vs. HIPAA for College Students, based on HHS guidance on campus clinics.

A coordinated starting point

College Student & Young Adult Legal Documents Kit

Your starting point for considering financial authority, healthcare decisions, medical information, and education-record permissions together.

  • Durable Financial Power of Attorney
  • Healthcare Power of Attorney
  • Living Will
  • HIPAA Authorization
  • FERPA Authorization
  • Bonus Emergency Medical & Contact Information Sheet

The kit includes completion and signing instructions. Product registration provides access to state-specific requirements to review before signing.

Choose documents based on the help the young adult wants and the requirements that apply. The information sheet doesn't grant authority. A school or provider may request its own release or intake process, and existing documents may already cover some of these needs.

Read about the question you're working through.

School and medical privacy

FERPA vs. HIPAA for College Students: What Parents Can Access

Separate school records, medical information, emergency disclosures, and decision-making authority before choosing permissions.

Read the article →

Pause for advice when the situation isn't straightforward.

Ask an attorney about eligibility and execution when a student is under 18, a guardianship or other court order exists, understanding or voluntary consent is in question, or documents will be used across states and you're unsure which requirements apply.

For ongoing healthcare needs, ask the treating professional what information and care arrangements should be available. Don't assume a standard release covers every specially protected record or service.

For immediate danger or a medical emergency, call 911 rather than delaying help to locate forms. HIPAA permits certain disclosures in an incapacitated patient's best interests; lack of a signed authorization isn't an absolute barrier to all family communication. HHS explains the limits.

A few common questions

Is this only for students leaving home?

No. Young adults beginning work, living at home, or moving into their own place can use the healthcare, financial, and practical planning prompts. Education-record permissions are relevant only where there are applicable school records to address.

Does paying tuition give a parent automatic access to records?

Not by itself. FERPA rights belong to the eligible student. A school may disclose records to parents under certain exceptions, including tax dependency, but that isn't the same as unrestricted access based on paying tuition. Read the FERPA and HIPAA guide for the distinctions.

Can the young adult choose different people for different roles?

Discuss each role separately and review the eligibility rules for the applicable document. Financial help, healthcare decisions, and permission to receive information needn't all be assigned alike. The decision-maker guide can help frame that conversation.

What should we do after signing?

Keep the originals protected, provide appropriate copies, and confirm the receiving offices' procedures. Revisit contacts, document terms, and permissions after a school change, move, or change in the people the young adult trusts. Use the kit's existing emergency information sheet rather than making another competing version.